Much energy is given to the thought of, pursuit of, and acquisition of, sex. When straight men are dating women, basic kindness and charm seem to be part of the process. The Very Persistent His profile: Normal looking guy of any age, a few stats listed about himself.
Approach two: a simple photograph of myself (clothed and smiling) with a small blurb that lists my age (36), height (5’11), weight (180 lbs), and a few lines saying something like “Educated professional looking for chats, new friends, or dates. A little charm and consistency go a long way.” Some guys download Grindr to chat, others to easily get laid, some just to see who is around. the Bots His profile: a relatively handsome guy with a basic age and weight listed. Grindr is a phone app used by gay men to meet other gay men nearby. Urban dictionary defines it as “Location based i Phone/i Touch App for gay, bi, and curious men to meet. He actually takes time to write out a basic profile. He acts surprised and upset when you comment on his misrepresentation. And finally: The Disappearing Nice Guy His profile: Good-looking guy with basic stats that seem honest. Hoping for a relationship, but down for fun in the mean time.” Him: Hey, I really like your profile.