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Women who don't have the character to realize what league they are in and spot the guys who are not that into them will get a lot of one nighters. but it i had meet her at say a bar or she was only here for the summer , waiting such a period just wouldn't make any sense and our time togther would likely to over by then . i know I usually get to know the person within a couple weeks/few dates. In the end if it takes 90 days to get to know someone to know if you are willing to have sex w/ them then there is prob an issue....
And when they turn around and reject guys in their league because of what they read in a book, they will find themselves single and back in line waiting for the hot guy again.
We don’t know what he thinks of you yet because, quite frankly, he could be telling you anything.
There hasn’t been time to build any trust, respect, adoration or love.
I am just reading a book-Act like a Lady, Think like a man by Steve Harvey.(#1 best seller) Steve is “Encouraging women to have the men wait at least 90 days before having sex with them. The rule is for women to not give up the *cookie* for 90 days but have the man wait until he is proven “worthy” of her feminine benefits. Sex is something two people do together because they enjoy each other and find each other attractive. EDIT: I didn't want to take up another post with this question. If you both agree you want it, then there is nothing wrong with having sex with someone you have only known a month, or two for that matter. A better, more sensible rule is not to have sex with anyone you aren't sure you could spend a whole lot of time with.
You have a probationary period where you have to prove you are serious about the job before you get benefits. When I choose to have sex it's because it's something I want to do. But what are you going to do about that one **** who's wrecking it for everyone by not waiting 90 days?
He is saying women must wait to see if the men are serious before giving themselves physically. I would never, ever wait 90 days if there is a physical attraction there. She's always out there, you know; spending more money on clothes, hair and cosmetics, putting in more time at the gym, giving your boyfriend attention when you're just too busy or tired to.
He says to put the men on probabtion till they have proved they are worthy of her 'benefits' . I agree you should not sleep with a guy before you know him. Besides, I might start getting suspicious that you're giving it up to some else.
I would also like to say I have not made any opinion myself, only stated from the book, I wanted to see what men thought about 90 days. But it is not hard to tell which guys will stick around and which think you are just good for that night. It is a game some it would depend on the situation or how i know the girl , in some cases it might be ok to not doing anything with her over such a period , especially if we were just friends and just geting to know each other . I would agree that you should know the person rather well. "IF" I hung around, which is doubtful, I'd prolly just dump her on day 91............after "getting the cookie"! I mean, taking relationship advice from a comedian? BTW, Steve Harvey does NOT speak for all "MAN"-kind.