Also, keep an eye out for these red flags when he does open his mouth: Does he drop swear words like they’re going out of business? When you have something to say, does he listen to you?Does he call you ‘chick,’ ‘babe,’ or other nicknames to address you? When you do something for him, does he acknowledge it?Women get into bad relationships over and over because they don’t learn from their mistakes.The wonderful thing about dating is that we attract what we need to work on in ourselves.However good-looking and charming he might be, if he gives you the heeby-jeebies, skedaddle outta there quick! You thought his unsocial behavior was what drew you to him. It’s a nerve-racking experience to meet a new person, trying to figure out if you have chemistry, if you have enough things in common to take it past the first date, and so many other things that are running through your head.After a while, you want him to be there for you, do things with you, share and experience life together as a couple. He’s busy making broody eyes at the wall he’s probably staring at! You see him fumbling with the pepper shaker, nervously adjusting his collar. However, if this nervous nelly demeanor continues past the first date, and he seems more nervous on each of your subsequent meetings, then he’s not a confident person.
However, the process of kissing frogs is the downside of dealing with a pile of poop left behind by each person.
Does he treat his colleagues and friends with respect? There’s something sexy about a man who can see the lighter side of things and can take a joke in the right vein. A man who is polite and respectful when required and one who knows when to stand his ground, is attractive. On the other hand, you might be super attracted to him and he’s drop dead gorgeous. But these pointers that you’re probably dating the wrong guy should help you steer clear of making a disastrous mistake.
Does he give the waiters, the cashiers, the respect they’re due? However, what is not acceptable is a man who acts clownish. However, what is not attractive is a guy who doesn’t know his What do you feel in your gut about this guy? Does the prospect of meeting him cause butterflies in your tummy to go into overdrive with excitement? But the problem is, he has glaring red flags waving out at you. But you need to be able to spot the wrong guy, don’t you?
But if his eyes on you make you want to take a shower and scrub yourself raw, then it’s your sixth sense telling you that you’d be better off leaving him behind – far, far behind, and moving on.
Even if the guy you’re dating is charming, courteous, and says and does all the right things, but his start gives you the creeps, then it’s probably best to ditch him like a hot potato and run.