The member can choose to click on the notification and respond to your chat message.
And if the person is already online he/she will receive a push notification online.
So these messages will always have the envelope next to them. In the world of online dating, initiating happens both ways. Sending a flirt is a harmless and low risk way of getting someone’s attention. If you’re a woman not used to making the initial contact, don’t worry! So you can see the entire back and forth conversation with that member all in one place. When you click on that, you will see older messages exchanged with that member. REF All of the messages you exchange with a member on the site show up together as one conversation. When you get to the bottom of a conversation on the page and want to see older messages, look for the button that says SHOW OLDER MESSAGES.