I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I am aware that there are many strip clubs, and brothels in Medellin.Strippers and hookers are not the type of girls that I date, so I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.
Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast. When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.